It has been Proven! Men Annoy Women Twice as much as Children!

If we look at history, we can conclude that mothers have always been in a closer relationship with their children than men. Why was that? Because in prehistoric times the man was the one who was the hunter in the family, the one who provided the food for the family, and the woman from time to time collected barns and was the one who took care of the children. Then in more recent times, it was common in every family for a woman to be a housewife, one who did not go to work, one who was in charge of caring for the household and children. The father was the one who went to work and earned money and the one who took care of the survival of the family. Hence the closer relationship of the mother to the children, for the simple reason that she spent more time with them than the father.

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Over time, with modernized times and modern technology, all of this has changed. Women got the right to work and earn, and then they started going to work and earning a salary. Thus, they also contributed to the finances and expenses of the family, and over time they became equal with men. Both men and women went to work and earned wages.

This is where the other changes take place. The mother had more responsibilities than the husband. Like today, she goes to work, but work awaits her at home. She is responsible for tidying up and taking care of the hygiene in the home, she takes care of the meals in the home as well as for washing clothes and many other duties. There is also the upbringing of children, which every parent will admit is a real challenge and not really an easy task. Being a parent means that both of you should participate together in the upbringing of the children, to act together to lead the child on the right path. However, despite that fact, the greater responsibility falls on the mother. There are men who simply leave all the responsibility in raising children to the mother, which is not right at all.

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An interesting fact is that men often know how to prepare stress for women, more than children prepare for them. In one study, 45% of mothers confirmed this. Why is this happening? From the moment they decide to live together, couples should be aware that they have decided to build everything that comes with it in pairs, so that it involves involvement in everything in common, involves a number of compromises. Probably both parties are not sufficiently aware of the responsibilities that await them after the decision to live together. Living together is a big step for both parties and a change in their complete lifestyle.

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Men are often the ones who find it harder to accept the responsibility they have to take on. If those habits and acceptance of responsibility are not acquired at the beginning of the life together, it is even more difficult for that to happen afterwards. Men, not all, but some yes, with the arrival of the child are not ready to take so much responsibility, so that all the responsibility falls on the woman. This is more stressful for the woman, because they do not have the support they expected to receive. This is where the main problems arise, where the men in their defense say that they are tired from work, that the woman did not ask for help, etc. It is a great truth that often men leave women alone to deal with the problems related to children, without involving themselves in that process. Of course, these problems should be resolved with mutual understanding, agreement and compromise. To reduce stress, to overcome obstacles easier and faster, it is easier to work in pairs. All problems can be overcome through conversation and understanding.