Many quarrels that occur between couples stem from misunderstandings due to different styles of communication. For example, women often want to talk about the problems that occur in the relationship, and men usually it as someone expects them to find a solution. Women can also misinterpret men’s silence. Often, men have to think about a problem in silence, while the woman would understand this as if he did not want to talk to her.
If only misunderstandings were the only problem in the relationship, they would be very easy to resolve. There are situations in which one of the partners simply cools down. Why is this happening? For women, there are some things they just can’t go through easily. Every woman wants to feel loved, desired, appreciated, to be given credit for the work she puts in and for everything that depends on her in the home and in general for the relationship between her and her partner. When do problems arise that lead to serious consequences? When any of these things will not please the woman. Women are complex beings who give too much even more than their possibilities, but still at least to a satisfactory extent they expect the same from their partner. When they reach the point where they can no longer constantly go through the same things that bother them, at the same time they feel insufficiently appreciated, loved and desired, at that moment they begin to cool off from their partner and become indifferent.
When do women become completely indifferent to their partners?
- When she stops feeling loved
After some time spent in a relationship or marriage, it is normal for partners not to be too emotional and not to express their feelings as intensely as before. But when that happens to the point where the expression of emotions is reduced to a minimum or gone at all, problems arise. A woman wants to be constantly loved by her partner, she wants his love to be expressed and shown. For women, expressing love is like the kind of food they need to be happy and satisfied. We are not talking about expensive gifts and luxurious vacations, but about the spiritual, the deep love and emotions that she wants to be shown and to feel. When men, due to work occupation, financial problems, etc., forget about this very important moment of their partner, then the relationship simply cools down. Given that the obligations and interests change over the years, we simply all mature and do not preoccupy ourselves with all the problems and beauties that life brings us, however, the mutual relations should not be forgotten. At the end of a hard day, it’s nice to have someone to share things with that, to get support, a hug and a nice word. So do not forget to express your feelings and do not neglect your partner.
- When she is taken for granted
No one wants to feel like they are being taken for granted. Although women are the ones who pay more attention to these things, if the man feels the same way in a certain segment of the relationship or marriage, we are sure that he will not be happy in the least. Everyone wants to be given credit for the work they do. When a woman takes care of the house, the children, the hygiene and all that accompanying things, and the partner acts as if she is doing nothing, takes her work for granted and does not attach importance to it, again it is a good enough reason for to cause problems. In this society where men and women have equal rights and equal values, everyone wants to be valued and everyone has responsibilities that are no less important than the responsibilities of the other.
- When she feels alone for a long time
When the relationship between the partners cools down, it is most often the cause of the problems that happen to them on an ongoing basis. But when that loneliness lasts for a long time and the woman really feels lonely despite having a partner, then problems arise. It is the reason why a woman becomes indifferent to her partner and the reason why she wants to end the relationship or marriage. Paying attention, caring, love, respect are things that need to be nurtured and shown constantly, so as not to lose interest between the partners and not to cool the relationship. Loneliness is a bad feeling that leads to suffering and unhappiness in a relationship or marriage and brings problems and the inevitable breakup or divorce. Do not let your partner feel lonely in a relationship or marriage, because that feeling leads to a sure end and spoils the love idyll.
- She no longer has a reason to stay
With all of the above, when she can no longer find a reason to stay with her partner, be sure that the end of the relationship or marriage has come. All these things that we have listed above slowly but surely lead to the end of love. The relationship or marriage should be filled with love, harmony, care, commitment and shared moments. When those things are gone, no good reason can be found to save the relationship or marriage. For a relationship or marriage to be complete, to be beautiful and a relationship worth staying in, both partners need to be engaged equally, not just one. That is why they are two partners, because together they have to build the paths of life. When everything that is beautiful and that has kept the marriage or relationship broken and she has no reason to want to stay, then the end is inevitable.
- She will know she deserves better
The last thing that will lead to a sure end of the relationship or marriage is this, when she knows that she deserves better than what she is in at the moment. When she does not get it from her current partner, everything she knows she deserves, then she realizes that she deserves a much better partner than him. Then that relationship or marriage comes to an end, and she strives for a better partner who will give her all the things she deserves.
Love, respect, appreciation, understanding are the things that should be nurtured in any relationship or marriage so that the relationship does not end. Loneliness, indifference, disinterest are the things that kill a relationship or marriage.
