There are many different types of people today. In the past, people differed in skin color, hair color, eyes, height, weight, character traits, gender. Today, in addition to all those details, people differ in many ways. There used to be only 2 sexes and one is female and the other is male. In this modern age, apart from those two sexes, there are many other sexual orientations, and one of them is transsexuality.
Transsexuals are people who have passed from one gender to another, for example from males to females or vice versa. For example, a man born as a man can get a complete look of a woman, not only in terms of clothes or makeup, but with the help of surgery he can get a complete look of a woman. Thanks to advanced medicine, this transformation goes so far that a man can become a woman completely, including changes in the genitals. Also, a person born as a woman can receive a complete transformation and become a man. Transsexuals can change their genetics, but still can not change the reproductive characteristics of the sex they have entered. A person’s gender is determined at birth and indicates his individual biological condition that characterizes him as a man or a woman. In other words, gender refers exclusively to biological characteristics such as: hormonal balance, chromosomes as well as external and internal anatomy. Each of us as a person is born either as a man or as a woman, with some rare exceptions when it comes to Interpol personalities who are born with both male and female characteristics.
This is a story about a young boy who broke up with his girlfriend after learning that she was born a man. It is about Alex from Sydney, Australia who was 20 years old. This story dates back to 2019 when he told his story on a radio station. Alex was in a relationship with a 25-year-old girl with whom he was intimate for 9 months. In the beginning their relationship went very well and Alex did not doubt anything.
How did Alex find out about his girlfriend’s transsexuality?
One night Alex was out at a bar with a mutual friend of his and his girlfriend. At the end of the evening, after leaving the bar, their friend was a little more drunk and then he started telling the secrets he was hiding. Their friend admitted that he had a secret he was hiding about Alex’s girlfriend. The friend explained to Alex that his girlfriend had changed her gender when she was 18 and that she was actually born a man. This news came as a shock to Alex. At first Alex did not want to believe what his friend told him, but then after facing reality he found her estrogen pills. His emotions were mixed, he felt bad, he was angry, he felt betrayed. On the radio station as he explained his story, Alex explained that he was still in love with his now ex-girlfriend, but if he had known from the beginning that he was a transgender person he would never have been with her. He felt deceived. He says that for something like this she simply had to tell him the truth, this way the trust between them is completely lost. Their love story ended in a breakup.
Trust in a love relationship is extremely important. If it disappears or sways a little, the end of such a relationship is inevitable. Especially when it comes to such a delicate matter, which is not completely normal or completely acceptable to every person, it is completely wrong to hide. Each of us has the right to make decisions about our own lives and our own bodies, but not about the lives of others. If Alex’s girlfriend had been honest from the beginning, maybe their relationship would still have lasted and would have been crowned with a marriage, who knows. Such lies can only lead to the loss of trust and the termination of the love affair. So, if Alex’s girlfriend reads this story, it would be good to learn a lesson from her and in the next relationship to enter honestly and reveal all the cards on the table.
