As parents, there is nothing you can do for your children. That’s perfectly normal and right. Nobody disputes that. Of course you do everything in your power and beyond, to protect your children from the dangers that lurk in this cruel world.
Bert Fulks, a father from West Virginia came up with an encrypted message that works. Namely, one night he received a message from his son with the text “X”. Namely, Bert, who as a father had sessions with minors at an addiction clinic, so there he discovered a lot about their inconveniences from which they did not know how to get rid. Namely, he developed this Plan X in order to save his children if they find themselves in a situation that is unpleasant for them in any way, and they do not know how to get rid of it and stay where they are despite everything. which they experience. So the father explains that this plan works in such a way that for example if his son Danny is at a party he does not feel comfortable at, all he has to do is write the letter X to one of his family members, like what he is like his father, his mother, his older brother or his older sister. The plan then unfolds, so Danny gets a call in minutes. Namely, the person who will contact Danny will tell him that it is an emergency and that something happened in their home and that he will have to come immediately, and they will come after him. At that moment, Danny should tell his friends that he must leave immediately. The point of Father Bert’s plan is to allow children to get out of awkward situations while at the same time gaining the trust of their family members, without fear of being ridiculed by their friends later. Also, as Bert explains, there is a rule that the parent should not ask questions and judge.
This can also be called an escape plan. Sounds like a good plan, because teenagers often find themselves in awkward situations or places, from which they simply do not know how to escape and this is a great way to escape. Not all teenagers are the same and not all teenagers enjoy for example loud music, disco, aggression and the like. Some teenagers simply want to be in a place where they feel safe and without too many people around them. Father Bert hopes that parents will try this plan with their children and promises that they will be able to build a beautiful relationship and create trust in their children, and that children will feel safe and trusted in their parents.
What do you think about this plan? If you implement it with your children, we encourage you to share your experience with us and encourage other parents to try it out. It can sometimes be extremely important to your child.
