Today it is a real challenge to be a woman. An even bigger challenge is to grow one. When that future woman is your little girl, it’s important to teach her how to be independent. The influence of an independent and strong woman on a small child usually results in raising such a daughter.
The way mothers live, act, and speak lays the foundation for how their daughters will see themselves and communicate with the world. A strong mother teaches her daughter not to be dependent on anyone, but to be convinced that she can conquer the world on her own.
These women also teach their children to stand behind them in order to survive in the cruel world outside their comfortable home.
Strong women know their value and know the power of true love, so these girls know that they need to avoid bad relationships and can determine which people should be close to them in life. A strong mother respects herself, does not tolerate anyone belittling her, and giving up is never her option.
That’s why their daughters learn to work hard to achieve their goals because the road to success is never linear. In addition, these girls know that crying is not a sign of weakness and that they have to get up every time they fall and move on.
What should a mother teach her daughter?
She needs to learn how to make money on her own. She needs to know that she can earn money on her own so that she does not become financially dependent on her partner or anyone else. Teach her to save, to spend wisely and to live her life according to her financial means.
Learn that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty.
Today, girls are exposed to many unrealistic images of their appearance and behavior. Your daughter needs to understand the importance of kindness, moral compass, and values. It is really easy for girls to lose their value by trying to achieve unrealistic displays of a woman’s appearance.
Teach her to say no.
This is very important for several reasons. Your daughter needs to know how to refuse sex with a person who does not want to have sex. She needs to know how to refuse to do something she doesn’t want to do. Rejection is difficult for many women because it often makes them feel guilty.
Let her know that she has the right to say “No” and that this is an important part of the self-identification process.
Teach her that as a person she is not defined by any number.
Neither the number that tells the age, nor the number of the scales, nor the number in the bank, nor the number of partners … She should know that it is much more and if someone does not see it, she does not deserve a place in her life.
Teach her to get up when she falls.
When someone tries to stumble you while running towards success or saddens you in the happiest moments, just smile and walk away. Teach her that the person does not deserve her attention, much less her tears.
Teach her to read books, to enrich her vocabulary, to be eloquent; that it’s okay to have secrets; that there is nothing wrong with disagreeing with people, because everyone has the right to their own opinion and should not be afraid to express their opinion; that he should not expose his body to attract attention; wherever she takes her life, she should never forget where she came from; not to be compared to anyone …
He must teach her that the power of a woman is to change, to mature, to rise, to be her own, to be brave, to be a fighter, to be soft and strong at the same time, to be literally a whole world without which even this one would not exist.
